Saturday, May 26, 2012

The Great and Good Man is My Father



Ms. Ho’s memory of her father was vague, who died in his mid-40s suddenly when she was three.  She was raised by her mother alone on her meager salaries as a teacher in a city elementary school.  All she had of her father was a dusty box of old pictures and literary writings, and fleeting stories from her older relatives about him: He was a great man, they told her; he was the first native son from a back-water village in JianXi province gone golden, climbing high up in the political ladder of the ruling party at the time to become the provisional governor of a southern metropolis; he was, against all odds, an incorruptible politician leading an honorable rebellion against the Japanese invasion during World War II; he was a gentleman scholar who loved poetry and books, while he was wielding the big sword over the invading enemies; most of all, he never forgot his root in the impoverished village of JianXi, and generously opened his door at the height of his power to his friends and relatives from his remote native village, housing them, feeding them, clothing them, giving them money to help their ways into the world.  All these great deeds failed to impress her - They happened long ago; and in light of what she had to live through in her daily struggles of growing up, they meant very little.

Growing up in China during the Cultural Revolution, when your deceased father had been actually on the wrong side of the Communist government, meant that you hunkered down, not showing off your impeccable yet problematic lineage.  “Your father would never know what to do in this life.  Nobody could save you except for your own grit and steel,” her mother told her.

Until one day in January, seventy odd years later, she got an invitation in the mail, “You are invited to attend the 70th memorial celebration of the Doolittle Rescue Mission to be held in Toledo, Ohio, as the sole surviving daughter of the great General Ho.”  It turned out that her father spearheaded the effort rescuing the fallen American pilots of the first US trial mission to air bomb the Japan cities after the Pearl Harbor.  She was not born yet.  Her mother had never mentioned the story when she was growing up.  She only connected the dots from old tales told by her relatives defying the Communist repression, the few surviving American pilots (in their 90s) whom she kept in touch with, and the faded diary left behind by her father.  The Americans haven’t forgotten the Chinese general who had saved their lives, while her Chinese countrymen had all but wiped out her father’s record of war-time achievements.

She made the first-ever overseas trip to attend the memorial ceremony.  It was a happy occasion, a happy ending of her long search of an undefined character in her life: the daughter has overcome her fear of knowing who her father truly was; the daughter has found a sort of peace having drawn closer to the inner world of her father through time.  There were only five American pilots remained from the original seventy.  But they have done a great job keeping the memories alive, uniting the America’s actions during World War II with her father’s courageous rescue effort.

Returning home, she got an email from someone she has never met, “Hi, my name is Qing from Huei-chow.  I read about your trip to America from my local newspaper.  I believe that your father had adopted my mother Huei-ling, who was orphaned when young, from the JianXi village, and put her through school.  My mother passed away three years ago, and in her lifetime, she had never stopped looking for you, for an opportunity to give back what your father had done for her.”  It made her cry, almost.